I have met many brilliant men through my work who are outwardly capable, successful and composed, but internally carrying more than anyone knows. They may be holding pressure, responsibility, self-doubt, grief, exhaustion, loneliness or the quiet fear of not being enough. Often, they are not lacking intelligence or resilience. They have usually been resilient for a very long time. The issue is that resilience without honesty can become another form of self-abandonment. We keep going, but we stop listening.

This is why emotional honesty matters. It is not weakness, self-indulgence or a failure of professionalism. It is self-leadership. It is the moment we stop outsourcing our worth to performance and begin listening to the truth of our own inner life. For many men, this can feel unfamiliar because the permission to speak honestly about emotional experience may not have been available in childhood, education, sport, work or family culture. Some men have learned that vulnerability will be punished, mocked or ignored. Others have simply never been shown a language for what they feel.

Men’s mental health is not only a private issue. It affects leadership, relationships, communication, workplace culture and the quality of decisions people make under pressure. When emotional strain is hidden for too long, the person may still appear to be functioning, but their inner resources may be quietly depleting. This is one of the reasons I believe we need a more mature conversation about strength, especially in professional environments where performance can so easily become a mask.

The trouble is that what is not expressed does not disappear. It often finds another route. It may become irritability, withdrawal, overworking, numbing, cynicism or a private sense of disconnection. In professional life, this can show up as difficulty asking for help, reluctance to admit uncertainty, defensiveness when challenged, or an inability to rest without guilt. At home, it may show up as emotional distance, impatience or the tendency to disappear into busyness just when connection is most needed.

There is a different kind of strength available. It says tell the truth, ask for help, let someone in and listen to what the body is trying to say. This strength does not require us to collapse or make our emotions everyone else’s responsibility. It asks for something more mature than that. It asks us to become conscious participants in our own inner life. It asks us to notice what is happening before it becomes a crisis. It asks us to build the capacity to say, “I am struggling,” “I need support,” or “I do not know how to hold all of this alone.”

In leadership, this matters enormously. When leaders model emotional honesty with appropriate boundaries, they create cultures where others do not have to pretend quite so much. This does not mean turning every meeting into a therapy session. It means allowing humanity to be present in professional life. It means recognising that clarity, creativity, empathy and good judgement all depend on the state of the human being making the decision. If people are exhausted, afraid or silently overwhelmed, performance will eventually suffer, even if the mask holds for a while.

This is where emotional honesty connects with Conscious Confidence. Confidence is often misunderstood as certainty, control or a polished performance of strength. But Conscious Confidence is not bravado. It is the capacity to stay present with what is real and take one honest, values-led step from there. Sometimes the honest step is decisive action. Sometimes it is a difficult conversation. Sometimes it is rest. Sometimes it is asking for help before the situation becomes unmanageable.

There is a profound difference between saying “I am fine” as a reflex and saying “I am finding this difficult” as an act of courage. The first may preserve the appearance of control, but the second opens the door to connection, support and change. For many men, that door can feel uncomfortable at first. Yet on the other side of it there is often relief. Not because everything is solved immediately, but because the burden is no longer being carried in isolation.

I often think about how much energy is spent maintaining the image of strength. What might become possible if some of that energy were redirected into honesty, connection and repair? What if strength were measured not only by endurance, but by responsiveness? What if asking for help were seen not as a collapse of confidence, but as an expression of it? What if men were allowed to be whole human beings rather than endlessly competent performers?

For Men’s Health Week, my invitation is simple. Notice where you may be performing strength at the expense of truth. Notice where your body has been trying to get your attention. Notice where you might need support, space, rest or a more honest conversation. Sometimes the most powerful thing a man can say is, “I need help.” And sometimes the most loving thing another person can say is, “I’m here. Tell me more.”

By Neil Seligman

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In a recent coaching session, a client was feeling overwhelmed by all the possible angles on a situation. Every option opened another door, and every thought created another thought. There was no lack of intelligence in the room. There was no lack of commitment, professionalism or care. If anything, there was too much effort being applied in the same direction. The mind was working hard, but the system as a whole was not becoming clearer.

This is one of the great challenges of modern professional life. We are trained to believe that more thinking will solve almost everything. If the answer has not appeared, we assume we need more data, more analysis, more consultation, more planning or more time turning it over in the mind. Of course, there are moments when careful thought is essential. Rigour matters. Preparation matters. But there is a difference between discernment and rumination. Discernment clarifies, whereas rumination keeps us circling around fear dressed as problem solving.

In that session, clarity did not arrive through more analysis. It arrived in the silence. A pause, a breath, and a little space changed the quality of the conversation. Then came one simple question for the client to focus on: “What do I need?” Not what will impress. Not what will please everyone. Not what will prove competence. Not what might avoid discomfort. Simply, “What do I need?” From that question, something shifted. The answer did not feel manufactured by the mind. It felt as if it emerged from beneath the noise, from the body, the heart and the quieter intelligence that had been waiting to be heard.

I have come to trust these moments. They remind me that wisdom often speaks in a different register from anxiety. Anxiety tends to repeat itself, accelerate and demand immediate certainty. Wisdom is usually quieter. It may not give us a fully formed five-year plan, but it often shows us the next true step. When we slow down enough to hear it, we may discover that the answer is not as complicated as the mind has made it. Sometimes the most conscious move is the simplest one.

The phrase that keeps returning to me is, “easy is right.” By easy, I do not mean comfortable, lazy, passive or effortless. I mean the kind of ease that appears when something is aligned, honest and quietly true. There is an ease that comes when we stop forcing life through a narrow idea of how things should be and begin listening to what is actually true. That kind of ease can still ask courage of us. In fact, it often does.

This may ask us to have the honest conversation, set the boundary, accept the support, let go of an old identity or take the step that no longer needs to be justified to everyone. It may ask us to stop performing complexity when the simpler truth is already available. It may ask us to trust that a clear next step is enough, even when the whole path has not yet revealed itself. This is not avoidance. It is alignment.

This is particularly relevant for high performers, because many of us have been rewarded for making things hard. We have learned to associate strain with value and exhaustion with commitment. We may even mistrust simplicity, as if the straightforward answer cannot possibly be sufficient. Yet in my experience, a great deal of leadership maturity involves learning when to stop adding complexity and return to what matters. Not every decision needs another layer of performance. Not every challenge needs to become a drama of self-worth. Sometimes we need to slow down, breathe, and ask the more honest question.

This is also part of Conscious Confidence. Confidence is not always about having more certainty or projecting more authority. Often, it is about the ability to remain present when the mind is noisy, to listen beneath the surface and to act from alignment rather than panic. Conscious Confidence invites us to notice the difference between the part of us that is trying to control every outcome and the part of us that already knows the next right step. It is not bravado. It is not avoidance. It is a grounded willingness to meet reality with presence and move from there.

A simple practice can help. When you notice yourself looping, pause before adding another thought. Take a breath and feel your feet, your hands, your body in the chair. Let the question arise gently: “What do I need?” Then wait. Do not rush to answer from the same level of thinking that created the loop. Give the body and heart a chance to respond. You may be surprised by what becomes obvious when the noise begins to settle.

So perhaps the invitation is this. Where are you overcomplicating something right now? Where has rumination disguised itself as responsibility? Where might clarity be waiting not in more thought, but in a deeper pause? Slow down. Listen. Ask what is important. It does not have to be so hard.

By Neil Seligman

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For some, it carries associations of being overly gentle, overly accommodating, or lacking in rigour. In environments where results matter, this can create resistance before the conversation has even begun.

It is worth being clear. Conscious leadership is not soft leadership.

If anything, it demands more.

To lead consciously is to bring awareness to how you think, how you feel, and how you act. It is to notice the patterns that drive your behaviour and to take responsibility for them. This requires honesty. It requires discipline. It requires a willingness to see what is actually happening, not just what is comfortable.

From this place, clarity becomes possible.

Clarity in communication. Clarity in expectations. Clarity in what is working and what is not. There is less avoidance, not more. Difficult conversations are not delayed unnecessarily. Decisions are made with an understanding of both immediate and longer term impact.

Boundaries are an essential part of this.

A conscious leader does not say yes to everything. They recognise limits, both their own and those of the team. They understand that overextension leads to diminished performance and increased risk. So they make choices. They prioritise. They hold the line where needed.

This can feel uncomfortable at times. Especially if there is a tendency towards people pleasing or conflict avoidance. Yet without boundaries, clarity erodes. And without clarity, leadership weakens.

Decisiveness also plays a role.

Conscious leadership is not about endless reflection. It includes action. Decisions are taken with the best available information, informed by both analysis and awareness. There is an acceptance that not every decision will be perfect, but a commitment to learning and adjusting.

What changes is the quality of the decision-making process.

Less driven by fear or urgency alone. More grounded in a broader perspective. More able to take into account the human dimension as well as the commercial one.

The result is often stronger, not weaker.

Teams led in this way tend to experience both support and structure. They know where they stand. They understand what is expected. They feel considered, but not indulged.

There is a balance here. One that integrates presence with performance.

Conscious leadership asks more of the leader, not less. It asks for self-awareness, emotional regulation, clear thinking, and the courage to act in alignment with what is seen.

It is not always the easiest path. But it is a powerful one.

And in a world that is increasingly complex and fast-moving, it may be one of the most necessary forms of leadership we can cultivate.

By Neil Seligman

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It is sometimes mistaken for passivity, or a lack of urgency, or an absence of drive. In high-performing environments, this can lead to an unspoken assumption that calmness is somehow at odds with ambition.

In reality, the opposite is often true.

Calm, in a leadership context, is not the removal of intensity. It is the ability to hold intensity without becoming overwhelmed by it. It is a form of stability that allows others to function at their best.

When a leader is calm, the team begins to settle. Not because everything is easy, but because the environment feels workable. There is less noise in the system. Less second guessing. Less energy spent on managing perceived threat.

This matters more than we might think.

Psychological safety is now widely recognised as a key factor in team performance. Yet safety is not created through policy alone. It is transmitted through behaviour, moment by moment. Through how a leader listens, how they respond to mistakes, how they handle pressure.

A calm leader signals something important. It is safe to think here.

When people feel safe enough, they contribute more fully. They ask better questions. They admit uncertainty earlier. They take responsibility without excessive fear of blame. The overall intelligence of the group increases.

Trust grows in this kind of environment. Not as an abstract concept, but as a felt experience. People begin to rely on one another more naturally. Collaboration becomes less effortful.

Performance follows.

This does not mean that calm leaders avoid difficult conversations. Quite the opposite. They are often more direct, because they are not driven by reactivity. Feedback is given clearly, without unnecessary emotional charge. Expectations are set and upheld.

There is a quiet authority in this.

It is worth noting that calm is not constant. No leader is regulated all the time. The difference lies in recovery. How quickly do you return to centre after being disrupted? How aware are you of your own state in the moment?

Teams do not need perfection. They need consistency and repair.

If a leader loses their steadiness and then acknowledges it, recalibrates, and reconnects, this in itself builds trust. It models something human and usable. It shows that regulation is a practice, not a fixed trait.

Over time, the effect compounds. A calm leader creates a calmer team. A calmer team thinks more clearly, relates more effectively, and performs more sustainably.

The question is not whether calm matters. It is whether we are willing to cultivate it deliberately.

Because in the end, calm is not a personality type. It is a skill. And like any skill, it can be strengthened with attention and practice.

By Neil Seligman

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Before a word is spoken, before a direction is set, something else is already happening. Your mood is entering the room.

Human beings are exquisitely sensitive to one another. We read tone faster than content. We feel the atmosphere before we analyse the message. A leader who is tense, reactive, or unsettled may still deliver a well-constructed plan, but the underlying signal tells a different story. The team feels it, and they respond accordingly.

This is what we might call emotional contagion. Not as a theory, but as a lived experience. A leader’s state spreads. It shapes the field in which everyone else operates.

Self-regulation, then, is not a personal luxury. It is a professional responsibility.

To regulate is not to suppress. It is not about becoming neutral or flat. It is about developing the capacity to notice what is happening within you, and to remain in relationship with it without being overtaken. There is a steadiness that can hold intensity without amplifying it.

When a leader can do this, something subtle but powerful changes. Conversations become clearer. Reactions slow down just enough to allow choice. The space between stimulus and response becomes usable.

In that space, leadership begins.

Consider a moment of pressure. A deadline is missed. A client is unhappy. The instinctive reaction might be frustration or urgency expressed sharply. It feels justified. Yet the impact is often contraction in others. People become cautious, guarded, less willing to think openly or admit difficulty.

Now imagine the same moment held differently. The leader feels the same surge of energy, but does not transmit it unconsciously. There is a pause, a breath, a conscious choice of tone. The issue is still addressed directly, but without unnecessary escalation.

The difference is not in the content. It is in the regulation.

Over time, this creates a culture. Not one defined by rules, but by nervous systems that feel safe enough to function well. Clarity improves. Ownership increases. Creativity returns.

Self-regulation is trainable. It is built through simple, repeated acts of awareness. Noticing your breath before responding. Feeling your feet on the ground during a difficult conversation. Recognising the early signs of reactivity and choosing not to follow them blindly.

These are small practices. Yet their impact is cumulative.

The invitation is straightforward. Begin to take responsibility for the state you bring into the room. Not perfectly, but consciously. Notice when you are steady, and notice when you are not.

Leadership does not start when you speak. It starts in the moment before.

By Neil Seligman

Neil Seligman is a pioneer in the field of conscious leadership and a passionate advocate for mindfulness, presence, and spiritual growth at work and in life. He is the author of Conscious Leadership and 100 Mindfulness Meditations, and the Founder of The Conscious Professional.

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Most professionals believe they are good listeners. In practice, much of what passes for listening is waiting, waiting to respond, waiting to interrupt, or waiting to bring the conversation back to something familiar. This kind of listening is functional, but it is rarely transformative.

True listening requires presence. When a leader is fully listening, something shifts in the room. Attention becomes more available, the pace of the conversation naturally steadies, and people feel less pressure to perform or defend their position. As a result, conversations become more honest, more nuanced, and ultimately more useful.

This is not about technique, but about where attention is resting. If attention is split between the person speaking and the internal commentary running alongside, then listening is partial. Important signals are missed, meaning becomes diluted, and responses tend to be shaped more by assumption than by what is actually being said.

In high-pressure environments, this fragmentation of attention is common. Conversations move quickly, decisions are needed, and efficiency is prioritised. Listening becomes compressed, and while this may appear productive in the moment, the longer term cost is significant. Misunderstandings increase, assumptions go unchallenged, and people begin to feel unheard even when their words have technically been acknowledged.

Listening well is not passive. It is an active form of leadership that enables better decision-making, stronger relationships, and a more stable working environment. When people feel genuinely heard, they are more likely to contribute openly and engage more fully with the work.

There are simple ways to begin strengthening this capacity. One is to notice the impulse to interrupt and consciously allow it to pass. Another is to leave a brief pause after someone has finished speaking, giving space for what has been said to land fully before responding. These small shifts change the quality of interaction far more than most communication techniques.

Listening also involves attending to what is not being said. Tone, hesitation, and shifts in energy often carry as much meaning as words. Developing sensitivity to these signals requires a more receptive kind of attention, one that is less focused on analysing and more open to observing.

For many leaders, this can feel unfamiliar at first. It may seem slower, or even less efficient. In practice, it reduces the need for repeated conversations, clarifications, and corrections later on. What is gained in depth more than compensates for what appears to be lost in speed.

Presence is the foundation of all of this. When you are present, listening happens naturally. When you are not, no amount of technique will fully compensate. In my work with senior professionals, improving listening often has a disproportionate impact, not because people learn something new, but because they begin to attend differently.

If you want to strengthen your leadership, begin here. Listen not just to reply, but to understand, and notice what changes when you do.

By Neil Seligman

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Professional presence influences how we communicate, how we make decisions, how we lead, and how we are perceived by others. It shapes trust, credibility, and effectiveness. In many ways, it is the foundation beneath technical expertise, leadership capability, and emotional intelligence.

When someone has presence at work, you can feel it immediately. They are attentive. They are not rushing ahead mentally or distracted by internal commentary. Their attention is available. Conversations slow down. Complexity becomes easier to navigate.

This is not charisma. It is grounded attention.

In contrast, the absence of presence is costly. When professionals operate on autopilot, they miss nuance. They interrupt. They react rather than respond. Communication becomes rushed or defensive. Decision-making suffers.

Many high-performing professionals have learned to compensate for a lack of presence with speed, intellect, or control. This can drive results in the short term. Over time, it contributes to stress, misalignment, and burnout.

Presence is not about being calm all the time. It is about being fully engaged with what is actually happening, internally and externally. This is why presence is increasingly recognised as a core leadership skill.

From a performance perspective, presence improves decision-making. When we are present, we are more aware of subtle signals, both in ourselves and in others. We are less reactive and more deliberate. This leads to clearer judgment and better outcomes.

Presence also strengthens communication skills. Listening improves. Words become more measured. Silence is used effectively rather than avoided. These qualities are central to executive presence, even though they are rarely taught explicitly.

In leadership contexts, presence is deeply influential. Teams unconsciously regulate around the emotional tone of those in authority. Leaders who can maintain leadership presence under pressure tend to create environments of psychological safety, trust, and sustained performance.

This is not softness. It is a form of strength.

Presence is closely linked to mindfulness at work, though it does not require meditation cushions or long practices. At its core, mindfulness is about staying compassionately present with what is arising. In professional settings, this translates into clearer focus, better emotional regulation, and greater resilience.

One of the most effective ways to build presence is through the body. Slowing the breath. Feeling the feet on the floor. Allowing a pause before speaking. These small actions signal safety to the nervous system, which supports clarity and confidence.

Training presence is not about stopping thoughts. It is about relating to them differently, with more space and less identification. This shift alone can significantly reduce stress and improve workplace performance.

In demanding roles, presence also plays a role in burnout prevention. When professionals remain chronically disconnected from their own internal state, exhaustion often arrives unnoticed. Presence restores contact. It allows earlier course correction.

In a culture that rewards speed and output, presence can feel counter-cultural. Yet it is precisely what allows professionals to sustain effectiveness over time.

If you want to lead well, communicate clearly, and make better decisions under pressure, start here. Presence is not an optional extra. It is the ground from which professional mastery grows.

By Neil Seligman

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The other morning, a question dropped in that had been hovering around my consciousness for a few weeks. I thought I’d ask chatgpt:

“From your global perspective, how would you rate humanity’s current level of integrity—if 100% reflects a spiritually evolved, harmonious civilisation, and 0% reflects complete moral collapse?”

AI answered:
“About 34%.”

It stopped me in my tracks.

While nobody would claim this figure is objectively true, it feels, eerily, about right. After all, we live in a world where conflict, inequality, ecological neglect, and digital delusion continue to dominate headlines. And yet, within that very same world, kindness, brilliance, courage, and deep inner transformation unfold every day.

Humanity is not broken, but we are most definitely in a process. A process of becoming.

The Adolescent Phase of Humanity

It’s tempting to believe we’re at the peak of our evolution. We’ve mapped genomes, launched satellites, built neural networks, and decoded ancient wisdom. But emotional maturity, spiritual grounding, and global unity still feel light years away.

Perhaps this is the adolescent phase of our collective becoming, brimming with potential but scattered in focus, inconsistent in values, and still learning how to care deeply for the self and beyond it.

As a conscious leadership coach, I often notice how transformation requires an honest look in the mirror. The same is true for us as a species. We cannot ascend into our higher potentials while denying the truth of where we are.

Is Integrity Rising?

So I asked a second question:
“Given your global perspective, would you say that humanity’s integrity is rising or declining at this point in our collective evolution?”

The AI replied:
“Integrity is increasing—but slowly, unevenly, and not without resistance.”

That felt encouraging.

All over the world, people are awakening, asking better questions, calling for justice, investing in self-awareness, tending to their communities, and seeking purpose. The integrity of individuals is shifting. The systems, corporations, and institutions will follow, eventually.

The path ahead will not be linear. Consciousness expands in spirals, setbacks, surges. But the movement towards evolution is real.

An Invitation to Reflect

We each contribute to the integrity of the whole. Every interaction, decision, and expression of truth or compassion ripples outward.

So as we cross the midpoint of 2025, I offer this contemplation:

What does integrity mean to you today?
Where is it flourishing in your life, and where is it being invited?

Perhaps if more of us tuned in to that question and lived its answers boldly, 34% would soon rise.

And maybe that’s how we change the world, not all at once, but one choice, one presence, one being at a time.

By Neil Seligman

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Have you ever been stuck in a thoroughly unengaging, low-energy and unproductive meeting? I mean, the odds are that you have, at least once. I have, and I work alone!

It can often be hard to work positively and creatively if the physical environment you are working in is neither inspiring nor motivating. It can leave you feeling quite drained and disengaged. In today’s fast-paced business world, it’s easy to fall into the trap of dull, uninspiring meetings that feel more like a chore than a chance for growth and collaboration. Perhaps, by taking meetings beyond traditional places of work and into more mindful, engaging spaces, you can create an environment that fosters creativity, focus, and deeper connection.

So, what if the setting of your meetings changed on occasion? What if you swapped your office or boardroom for something different? Where could you go?

1.     A Green Space or Botanical Gardens

There is something about plants that makes me feel calm. Perhaps it’s the extra oxygen. Botanical gardens and other cultivated green spaces offer a serene environment that is a world away from a grey office suite. Hopefully, the natural setting would encourage relaxed yet focused conversations, making it an ideal location for brainstorming sessions or strategic discussions.

2.     The Beach

Who says you can’t have a meeting on the beach? The sound of waves and the soft breeze can help participants relax and become more open to new ideas. In fact, I listen to ocean waves to concentrate… I’d prefer the real thing if it was available! There is also something both humbling and majestic about the sea. It’s certain to alter the perspectives of the people in your meeting.

3.     A Rooftop Garden

Rooftop gardens in urban settings provide a peaceful escape from the city’s noise and chaos. They are also, one could argue, much more accessible and commonplace than the beach or a botanical garden! These elevated spaces offer tranquility while still being close to the action of the city, a juxtaposition that keeps you connected to the civilised word while also being with nature. The (ideally) beautiful views may spark fresh perspectives, perfect for strategic planning or team discussions.

4.     Galleries and Museums

If you are looking for examples of creativity and unique perspectives, then there is no better place than a gallery or museum. They are packed with thought-provoking exhibits and inspiring artwork (which is their MO) that can help stimulate creativity and open-mindedness. The peace within these vast spaces is also uniquely special, almost reverent. Certainly an environment that will leave you and your team feeling calm and inspired at the same time.

5.     A Café

We’ve had lots of grand places so far. But the setting needn’t be as ‘fancy’. I walk in cafés all the time. They have just enough bustle to feel like life is happening around you, which makes you feel connected with the outside world. They also don’t have so much bustle that the environment is distracting. The lighting is often soft. The harsh lighting of an office can feel harsh and clinical. Yes, cafés offer a comfortable environment that allows for focus without the rigidity of a corporate setting. They are ideal for one-on-ones or creative brainstorming sessions, where people can relax and feel more open to exchanging ideas in a low-pressure environment.

Ultimately, in my opinion anyway, working from a fresh location every now and then gives one new energy. The world is a big place full of interesting perspectives and cultures. Trying to come up with new ideas while working in the same place for years on end can become frustrating. Change your view and watch your innovation and creativity blossom.

By Chris Thomson

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The pandemic. Remember that? I don’t know about you, but the petering out of restrictions and the societal eagerness to get ‘back to normal’ doesn’t just make it feel like ancient history at times, but sometimes, based on how the world has returned to its old self, you’d have a job convincing me that out collective trauma ever happened at all.

This is, of course, an exaggeration. But it does beg the question, is our everyday world really the same as it used to be? Well, it can’t be, can it? There are many things that have changed. There are many practices and attitudes that have stuck. Some have been adopted so completely, that we can’t remember a time when it was not the status quo. For example, Zooms! Remember when video conferencing wasn’t really a thing for most of us? It certainly wasn’t for me. Had you ever heard of Zoom before 2020? I hadn’t! Now, Zooming, FaceTime, and remote meetings are completely accepted as a standard tool.

I also carry sanitiser and think twice about eating a birthday cake after the birthday 6-year-old has forcefully attempted to blow their candles out multiple times. Anyway, I digress. As this is a conscious workplace-based blog, perhaps it’s worth reminiscing on which positive workplace practices have stuck.

1.     Home

Let’s start with the most obvious one, working from home. For years many companies argued that working from home was counterproductive or simply not possible. The advent of the pandemic proved that it was possible. Quite easily in many cases. And many subsequent surveys and research projects have measured increased productivity. This goes to show how effective giving workers flexibility, comfort and work-life balance can really impact their wellbeing and job satisfaction.

However, it’s not just a change in attitude due to productivity and quality of work. There seems to have been an increase in empathy. Workplaces are much more readily offering remote work options in order to make work itself more accessible. It’s also because, as a collective, quality employees are less likely to apply for roles if this is not an option… but credit where credit is due, eh!

2.     The Rise of HR

During the pandemic, HR departments were tasked with a much bigger responsibility than they had previously been. Suddenly, HR workers weren’t just hiring, training and looking after staff, but aiding companies in solving huge logistical problems in order to keep businesses going. Since that time, the scope of HR has increased across the board and tends to be more prominent as a department and a tool in the minds of conscious leaders.

3.     Wellbeing

As mentioned previously, wellbeing has managed to remain as much more of a priority. The pandemic forced all of us to empathise. We all went through something, from the top of society to the bottom, and as a result, companies are more conscious than ever of employee mental health and wellbeing. This is partially, one could argue in hope, because more leaders had, themselves, experienced the real-world impact of the pandemic. It may also be because HR policies that came in during those years, pertaining to employee wellbeing, have stuck and proven to be great for both employer and employee.

4.     Work-Life Balance

This is somewhat an extension of all the previous points. We all learned especially many of us who have a habit of never stopping, that having space that is unoccupied by work, or social engagements, or whatever it may be, is valuable. Among all the traumatic elements of the pandemic, many of us (myself included) look back on that lockdown time in a positive light (which we may well not have imagined at the time). And if I, someone who became a parent and lost a parent during that time, can say that, then I fancy there are hoards of others who feel the same way. Companies simply seem to see leisure and rest as a higher priority now.

By Chris Thomson

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